Blog Archives - trish hermanson

When Your Yellow Brick Road Trips You

7/26/2019

That’s me as Dorothy and my husband Duane as the Tin Man as we’re off to see the wonderful Wizard of Oz. Along with the Scarecrow and the Cowardly Lion, we’re seeking brains, a heart, courage, and a way home.
     Which is what we all need along life’s highway, isn’t it? Because every day we run into flying monkeys that vex our minds. Wicked witches that crush our emotions. Dark paths that leave us fearful to take another step. Our Yellow Brick Road trips us up.
     But can a Wizard of Oz save us?
     No.
     The “Wizards” - the shortcuts in life - are as powerless as the man behind the curtain who pushes levers that release worthless smoke.
  So how do we gain the knowledge, compassion, and bravery we need to make it through our days?
     The same way the characters in “The Wizard of Oz” did - by facing our adversities, not running from them. Then wisdom, empathy, and grit develop inside us. Then we find our place in this world.
     And that’s enough to keep us skippin’ down life’s road.

My Hero Is a Loser

7/19/2019

My hero is a loser.
     Every way he tried to find happiness and purpose failed. A broken marriage. A broken career. Broken political dreams. A broken reputation. And broken health, leaving this once handsome man bent and blind.
     He thought he could create paradise on Earth, but everything let him down one way or another.
Isn't that how life is? We put our hope in a social movement; it falls short. Or in politicians; they break promises. Or a business venture; it takes more than it gives. Or in love and friendship; people hurt us. Or we knock ourselves out at work, and no one fully appreciates our sacrifice.
     Futility dogs us. Even my carefully tended landscaping sprouts weeds.
     The best in life eventually leaves us aching for more.
     Author C.S. Lewis explains this discontent: “If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world.” Only in that other realm, God’s paradise, will everything be whole. Perfect. Complete.
     That’s why John Milton is my hero. When this Seventeenth Century writer grasped that nothing would completely satisfy, he wrote “Paradise Lost.” It landed in the trashcan of obscurity.
     Not until after his death did critics recognize it as the greatest English epic poem ever crafted. But such praise wouldn’t have mattered to Milton anymore. He’d already graduated to the land of absolute fulfillment.
  Which leaves me wondering whether I’m searching for utopia here, or there.

How General Jackson Helps 'Conduct' My Ways

7/12/2019

Who would guess that what I’m learning in choir would help to set a course for my life?
     But that’s what occurs through my choral director, a spry woman of eighty-nine fondly called General Jackson. Jo Ann Jackson warns that singing is boring if we punch out every word at the same volume. She says we need dynamics, variations between a whisper and a crescendo.
     Through her graciousness in teaching music, Jo Ann demonstrates that even though I can’t orchestrate my life completely, I can sometimes pick up the baton and direct the music of my days. If I throw myself into a frenzied forte, I exhaust myself. I need times of pianissimo - quiet.
     Just as notes are organized into measures, I can arrange my activities so I’m not overwhelmed - schedule.
     I can pay attention to the tempo and declare when I need a rest note - a break.
     And I can give myself grace notes, those unnecessary flourishes that add richness - chocolate?
     So how am I “conducting” my days and my energy? Am I creating a symphony with this God-given treasure of time?
     Every life is worth it.

My Day in Court

7/6/2019

At my county courthouse, not even Thomas Jefferson could keep me from the bright light of justice. I was among the potential jurors, and frankly, none of us wanted to be there. We’d had to shift work responsibilities, find child care, bend schedules.
But there we were, ages twenty-one to seventy. Among us a bar tender, a nurse, a student, a home renovator, a tutor, a writer, a man with a runny nose, and a woman with a cleavage deeper than the Grand Canyon. Nothing would normally bring us together, except we were all randomly selected from the same judicial district in Jefferson County.
     Yet in our hands lay the fate of a man across the room, his eyes cast down. Was he innocent? Guilty? Whatever we decided would change his life forever. That’s what made me realize that we, the people - ordinary folks in jeans and tie dye - wielded more power than the Robe behind the bench and the Suits behind their desks.
Sometimes we simple folk think we lack power. That we don’t have a voice. But in a courtroom, we wield the authority to deliver justice for all.
  The verdict wasn’t in yet for the defendant, but one thing was clear: I had an awesome responsibility, one that made me proud to be there.